Not too long ago, I thought that meditation was just about sitting in quiet and not doing anything until your mind cleared-and while some of that is true, it's not exactly correct (I'm usually not very good at sitting still, so it took me ages to even think of trying it). But if you take a class for transcendental meditation for beginners, in particular, you'll see that repeating your mantra over and over while not moving your lips is not in fact "doing nothing." And when I come to think of it, it doesn't make sense for a 5000-year-old practice to be so uninvolved, especially when some of the most successful entrepreneurs (like Bridgewater's Ray Dalio) insist they owe their success to TM.
In case you haven't noticed, transcendental meditation is having quite a moment and it's because it's a proven stress-reducer-more than 340 studies explain its benefits-and research shows that beginners reap just as many benefits as those who've practiced for ages (what a perk). While someone practicing TM repeats their mantra, they let thoughts come and go and don't force them away, and as a part of the process, they are conditioning themselves to not have reactions. (Do you see how this relates to anxiety?). Now, in order to get into the actual nitty-gritty of this form of meditation, you'll have to sign up for a lifetime membership with TM and learn from an instructor-members are required to sign something saying they won't divulge what their teacher tells them (we know this might sound complicated, but it's to protect the practice and ensure that people are being properly taught).
To learn a little bit more about transcendental meditation for beginners, we tapped Chandresh Bhardwaj, a spiritual advisor, senior meditation teacher at The DEN Meditation in Los Angeles, and author of Break the Norms to fill us in on everything we've always wanted to know about mantra and TM.
What is a mantra?
Bhardwaj is a seventh-generation teacher and says that in his lineage specifically, mantra is given in a sacred one-on-one process and is divided into a few steps. The first step is to receive a Beeja mantra (вЂњBeejaвЂќ means вЂњseedвЂќ). вЂњThis first mantra plants the seeds of ripening your awareness, warming up your energy, and calming the anxiety of mind,вЂќ says Bhardwaj. This is almost like a starter mantra-if your teacher thinks you have progressed, then you can move on to receive the next mantra (what he calls вЂњthe real dealвЂќ). вЂњIt's prepared based on your intentions, strengths, weaknesses, and spiritual and material aspirations,вЂќ he says. This somewhat lengthy process often requires the teacher to get higher approval and involves dedication on both ends.
HOW DO YOU FOCUS ON IT?
It's all about breathing. You want to gently inhale and then exhale the breath, says Bhardwaj. Next, start consciously repeating the mantra in silence without moving your lips. вЂњThe key is to repeat the mantra with complete awareness and do it in relaxation,вЂќ he says. вЂњDo not rush through it.вЂќ You can also just try focusing on the breath itself.
Why is it kept private?
вЂњMantra is your key to the soul-it's like a love letter that you share with the cosmic universe,вЂќ says Bhardwaj. вЂњYou don't just want to share it casually with others.вЂќ Other than the fact that it's personal, you would also be sharing a part of your teacher that's not yours to give (in Bhardwaj's lineage, the teacher gives the student some of their energy when they bestow a mantra upon them). If it makes it easier to understand, think of it as telling a secret that's not yours to tell.
WHAT IS ITS PURPOSE?
Mantra means вЂњinstrument of the mind.вЂќ вЂњJust like any instrument, mantra's task is to put your mind on the right frequency,вЂќ says Bhardwaj. вЂњMantra calms the anxiety, relaxes the mind, and gets you in touch with your awareness in the most effortless way.вЂќ By the way, other mantras exist specifically for things like healing or bolstering your creative energy.
What do you think about transcendental meditation for beginners? Do you practice meditation? Share with us in the comments, and then read about how to channel your inner calm anywhere.